By not asking questions, you lose
I experienced something today that reminded me of a customer service snafu we were involved in a month ago with one of our biggest customers.* This really must happen all the time, but I am going to try to emphasize where the problem lies for effect.
Here's the scenario: you have a good customer with whom you have been doing business for some time. Said customer has a tendency to demand what they think and know they want. You have learned that they are right most of the time and it really doesn't make much sense to question what they want.
It is very, very easy in this scenario to forget that because you are the supplier and have the assumed role of knowing all about the product you supply. You hold the unique position of knowing better even though you think they may have already thought of that. In the case of our customer, we assumed that they knew that when a tank is ordered, it doesn't necessarily come with accessory items. In fact, there are cases where a tank is ordered with accessory items that support a product not being shipped; i.e. the accessories are for a different tank. We assumed they understood all of this and when disparate parts were ordered, no one took the time to question whether or not that was what they really wanted.
Who is at fault? From our vantage point, we were only responding to a customer order and had assumed they knew what they were ordering. From their vantage point, we were the supplier and knew better and looked at all orders for completeness and sensibility. We were both at fault. The problem is, even with this being a "no-fault" situation (i.e. 50% of the fault goes to both of us), we are really the ones who take 100% of the blame when it comes to our credibility as a supplier. We may (and do) privately complain about how painful it is to do business with customer xyz, but at the end of the day, we are happy the customer is there and would be unhappy were they to truly go somewhere else (outside of those rare cases where the customer really does need to find another supplier). We take the responsibility, as a supplier, of being the oracle, guiding their actions when it comes to their buying product we produce. Therefore, we take 100% of the responsibility, even when they do something stupid. (Mind you, I am not speaking form a legal standpoint. That is a completely different ball game. If an order lists widget a and b, then we ship them widget a and b - legally speaking.)
Had we taken a moment of our time to question their actions, the worst that could have come of it is being chastised for asking. The best is to have avoided a problem that ended with a higher up in the company feeling we did nothing to help them in their endeavor to buy product from us.
In a situation I encountered today, I was reminded of this same scenario, but with me on the other side of the table. In this case, I had placed an order for some stuff (we'll leave the details out for the vendor's sake) and because of having done business with said vendor for quite some time, I assumed they would help guide me in case I didn't order everything I needed. They didn't do what I had hoped they would and now I'm stuck, months later, waiting another few weeks for a minor item that is placing everything I am trying to finish on hold. As I got off the phone with the rep, I said to myself that I'll never order xyzs from them again. That is all it took.**
Think about that. Because someone, who I assume is a professional at what they do, did not take the time to go through my list of items and ask the question, is this all he needs? That is all it takes to lose a customer - especially when the customer has a lot of options in where they can purchase the product you sell.
The lesson is this: serve the customer by asking them questions. Ask them about what they are using your widget for and how you might help them further. Simply ask. The worst case scenario is that you don't get an answer. That is certainly better than losing their business.
*Not that being a large customer matters. Customer service matters no matter who you are and what you contribute to our overall sales.
**Actually, that is not all it took. This had happened a few times before and this time was enough.

